REAL TALK

1.If a man wants u, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want u, nothing can make him stay. So stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

2.Allow ur intuition or spirit to save u from heartache. Stop trying to change ourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

3.Never live ur life for a man before u find what makes u truly happy.

4.Don't settle if u feel like he is stringing u along then probably is.

5.Don't stay coz u think "it will get better" u will be mad at urself a year later for staying when things are not better.

6.The only person u can control in a relationship is u.

7.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats u. Ignorance something bothers u speak up.

8.Never let a man know everything he will use it against u later. U cannot change a man's behaviour, change comes from within.

9.Don't ever make him feel he is important than u are..even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi god. He is man nothing more nothing less.

10.Never let a man define who are you. Never become someone else man.

11.Oh Lord! If he cheated with u, he will cheat on You.
A man will only treat u the way u allow him to treats u.

12.You should not be the one doing all the bending compromise is the two way street.

13.U should never look for someone to complete u , a relationship consists of the whole individuals - look for someone complimentary not supplementary.

14.Not all men are dogs.

15.Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give u everything that u need.

16.Keep him in ur radar but get to know that.

17.Share this with all the ladies in ur list.

RETHINK her choices and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

BY THE WAY THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN.