Friday, March 6, 2009

Hijab for men too, not only for women

Definition of Hijab for Muslim Men
How Modesty is Incorporated into the Islamic Dresscode for Men.
Hijab applies on Muslim men as much as women. These requirements to cover differ from women but the rationale for Hijab is to fortify modesty between the sexes

Hijab is often associated with Muslim women - the full dress-code for a Muslim woman. Some may find it surprising to know that Muslim men are also required to observe Hijab. The conditions of a man's Hijab differs from a woman's due to the biological, physiological, and physical differences between the genders. Here is what the Muslim man's Hijab must entail.

The Basic Requirements of a Man's Hijab
Islam dictates that a Muslim man's basic Hijab is the covering of his body from belly-button to below the knee. Though this sounds like a rather sparse and loose definition of modesty, there are pertinent reasons as to this ruling. Men are required to work in Islam, unlike women, who are given the choice to earn their own income. Men are required to support their families financially regardless of their level of education or background.With this ruling, it is evitable that those who find employment as construction workers, farmers, or through other blue collar jobs would be those of the male gender. In some cases, these workers spend most of their time under the hot sun or in extremely dry weather. This provision, the covering of the abdomen to the knee, is the basic requirement that they should observe - this serves as Hijab between themselves.

The Muslim Man in the Presence of the Opposite Gender
Ideally women should not be exposed to harsh terrains in search of employment. Should they be in the presence of the opposite gender while working outdoors, Muslim men should remember to observe the basic Hijab requirement in front of marriageable women, and preferably to cover up more.However, in a social setting or if both men and women work indoors, the definition of Hijab for men becomes wider to endorse and fortify the concept of modesty.Just like women, men should wear loose, long and non-transparent clothings as to not attract attention from the opposite gender, to their physical appearance. Men are not required to cover their hair but many Muslim men do, with turbans or keffiyahs. Scholars have agreed that it would be more befitting for a Muslim man to wear long trousers and longer sleeve shirts when in the presence of women whom they may marry. "Less is More" is the golden rule for Hijab. Men should also avoid dressing similarly to women.

Cultural Muslim Men Attire
Popular attire worn by Muslim men around the world include thobes or dishdashs, these are long shirts that sometimes reach down to the ankles; bishts or abayas, robe-like apparel that cover the whole body; sirwal or sokoto, baggy trousers usually worn under a thobe.These are apparel that are influenced by culture and are not ordained by Islam. The religion itself allows both Muslim men and women to wear clothes of their choice provided they comply with the tenets of modesty.

The Muslim Man Must Honour His Muslim Sisters' Hijab
A Muslim man, besides observing his Hijab, must also honour the Hijab worn by Muslim women. He should behave appropriately in the presence of the opposite gender, and observe modesty at all the times. A Muslim man should never objectify a woman and neither should be condescending or rude towards her. Similarly, his social interaction with a marriageable Muslim woman should only be done on a professional level to avoid any unwarranted temptation.

ohh..tahini pistachio Halawa...

Today, i feel like eating this kind of halawa...

can anyone get it for me :(

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Sikap wanita yang disukai lelaki


Dalam batas yg wajar, sifat keanak-anakan seorang wanita menjadi daya tarikan di mata lelaki. Mereka berasa terhibur dengan keletah anda. Tetapi tentulah bukan sifat keanak-anakkan yang melampau dan menyakitkan hati tetapi sikap keanak-anakan yang menyenangkan. Misalnya, kemanjaan wanita yangmembangkitkan naluri kebapaan dan kelakian lelaki. Wanita ceria membuat lelaki lebih berghairah.

2.Penuh Pengertian

Sikap pengertian wanita membuat lelaki berasa dihargai dan diterima seadanya.Sikap ini tercermin dari perasaan mudah memaafkan,memilih waktu yang tepat untuk berbincang masalah dan sebagainya. Contohnya ketika lelaki melakukan kesilapan, wanita yang berpengertian tidak terus mengeluarkan kata-kata yang kasar atau menuduh bukan2 sebaliknya cuba mengerti duduk persoalannya.


Wanita yang menghargai lelaki adalah wanita idaman lelaki. Berbeza dengan wanita yang suka diperlakukan dengan lembut, lelaki suka dihargai, dipuji dengan tulus ikhlas dan diberi kepercayaan. Penghargaan dari wanita membuat lelaki berasa bangga.

4.Menjaga Penampilan

Lelaki menyukai wanita yang pandai menjaga penampilannya agar sentiasa kelihatan cantik, bersih, kemas dan menarik. Penampilan yang baik menunjukkan wanita tersebut menghargai dirinya. Dia akan murah senyuman, pandai merawat tubuhnya, meningkatkan kualiti hidupnya dan memberi yang terbaik kepada dirinya. Dia suka dan bersyukur dengan dirinya dan secara tidak langsung memancarkan pesona yg menyebabkan elaki juga menyukainya. Apabila sudah berumahtangga, wanita tersebut terus menjaga penampilan dirinya dan kesihatan tubuh badan walau sudah beranak-pinak.Siapa yang tidak suka isteri yang masih kelihatan cantik dan ramping walau dah punya anak 3??

5.Pandai berbicara

Lelaki tertarik dengan wanita yang pandai berkomunikasi dan boleh diajak berbual. Walau topik perbualan yang disukai lelaki berbeza dengan topik kegemaran wanita, wanita tersebut dapat mengimbanginya. Dia bukan sekadar teman berbual yang pasif, tetapi dapat memberi respon dan pendapat yang baik. Dia juga tahu menjadi pendengar yang baik, serta mengalihkan topik yang agak serius kepada perbualan yang lebih menarik. Lelaki juga suka dengan wanita yang suka bergurau dan pandai berjenaka serta boleh menerima jenaka lelaki dengan baik dan berfikiran terbuka.

6.Pandai Bergaul dan Menyesuaikan Diri

Wanita yang pandai bergaul dan menyesuaikan diri mempunyai nilai lebih di mata lelaki. Wanita tersebut tahu menghadapi orang yang lebih tua dan cara berhadapan dengan orang yang lebih muda. Apabila berhadapan dengan suasana yang baru, wanita tersebut tidak gentar malah cepat menyesuaikan diri. Dia mudah di ajak ke mana saja dan tidak kekok samada di bandar atau di kampung.

7.Menghormati Diri Sendiri

Lelaki suka dengan wanita yang menghormati dirinya sendiri sebagai seorang wanita, bersikap sopan dan mempunyai etika. Wanita yang menghormati dirinya sendiri mempunyai keyakinan dan tahu apa yg baik dan buruk diperlakukan oleh seorang lelaki terhadap dirinya. Jadi dia tahu apa yg dia inginkan dan mahu elakkan serta menjaga maruah dirinya. Dia tidak akan merendah-rendahkan dirinya dan tidak akan membiarkan lelaki memperlakukan dirinya sesuka hati.

8.Simpati dan prihatin

Lelaki suka wanita yang murah hati, mengambil berat, simpati pada nasib yg susah, sayangkan kanak-kanak dan tidak memilih bulu. Kebaikan yang wajar dan spontan mencerminkan hati yang mulia.Ada kecantikan dalaman pada dirinya yang memancar keluar dengan indah & mempesona…Inilah sifat seorang wanita yang sempurna…

10. Solehah

Lelaki juga suka pada wanita yang solehah (islamic) dan ini juga adalah salah satu dari tuntutan-tuntuan syarak.(untuk lelaki yg soleh je la kot…

P/s:For translations, just let me know.If there's no request for the translation, I won't do it :P

Wednesday, March 4, 2009


Read out loud the text inside the triangle below.
More than likely you said, 'A bird in the bush,'! And. ....... If this IS what YOU said, then you failed to see That the word THE is repeated twice! Sorry, look again

Next, let's play with some words and tell me what you see...

In black you can read the word GOOD, in white the word EVIL (inside each black letter is a white letter).

Now, What do you see?

you may not see it at first, but the white spaces read the word optical. The landscape read the word illusion. Look again! Can you see why the painting is called optical illusion?

what do you see here?

The word teach reflects as learn :)

okay now, how about this one...

You probably read the word ME in brown, but....... When you look through ME you will see YOU!

Remember, You Don't Stop Laughing Because You Grow Old

A disappointed salesman of Coca Cola returns from his Middle East assignment. A friend asked, "Why weren't you successful with the Arabs?" The salesman explained : "When I got posted in the Middle East , I was very confident that I would make a good sales pitch as Cola is virtually unknown there. But, I had a problem I didn't know to speak Arabic. So, I planned to convey the message through three posters...

First poster: A man lying in the hot desert sand...totally exhausted and fainting. Second poster: The man is drinking our Cola. Third poster: Our man is now totally refreshed. And Then these posters were pasted all over the place "Then that should have worked!" said the friend. "The hell it should have!? said the salesman, didn't realize that Arabs read from right to left"
Important to Know Your Customers!

Don't wear a ring while bowling

this is what happens to stupid bowlers >.<

Hand paintings

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Amazing Carpenters Wood Work

there are alot more..I'll upload later lah..hehehe :P


One Nation, 'Under God.

One day a 6 year old girl was sitting in a classroom. The teacher was going to explain evolution to the children.

The teacher asked a little boy:

Tommy do you see the tree outside?


TEACHER:Tommy, do u see the grass outside?

TOMMY: yes

TEACHER: Go outside and look up and see if you can see the sky.

TOMMY: Okay. (He returned a few minutes later) Yes, I saw the sky.

TEACHER: Did you see God up there?


TEACHER: That's my point. We can't see God because he isn't there. Possibly he just doesn't exist.
A little girl spoke up and wanted to ask the boy some questions.
The teacher agreed and the little girl asked the boy: Tommy, do you see the tree outside?


LITTLE GIRL: Tommy do you see the grass outside?

TOMMY: Yessssss!

LITTLE GIRL: Did you see the sky?

TOMMY: Yessssss!

LITTLE GIRL: Tommy, do you see the teacher?


LITTLE GIRL: Do you see her brain?


LITTLE GIRL: Then according to what we were taught today in school, she possibly may not even have one!

(You Go Girl!)


Monday, March 2, 2009

what a day....

Today, I'm fasting..and guess what?? I have to cook for my grandparents....ohh..i was so hungry..and i made them orange juice. for them..well, nevermind it.I'm strong!! yahhhh baby!and Salahi was so annoying on YM..hahaha(see, I've mentioned your name in here :P).well, i ate chicken legs that i cooked by myself and it wasn't so good like I ate that cooked by aunt Anna long time ago..LOL. Hmmm..kepingin aku nak minum air soya arini..dapat gak..2 botol weyh!

It was 11.00pm. I felt like taking a shower.*yay i love water!!!*

Sunday, March 1, 2009


I woke up and grab yesterday's news paper. sigh....hmmm..ok, online now..I checked my gmail and I got a forwarded message from Arsalan with the IT TWINS subject. LOL. It's funny. It says Someone in the IT industry gave birth to a set of twins. Guess what they named them? See Below for Answer….

cute arent they?

hahah..It's great to laugh..hmm..